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Keeping Kids Fit For Fall Sports

Monday, June 28th, 2010

by Mike Kravik

Back in the day, (“the day” being the 1970’s) summer vacation as a teenager who was too young to drive or work meant kicking back and truly taking it easy. I am sure I did other things but the routine that stands out to me is staying up late to watch Johnny Carson and then sleeping in the next day until at least 10:00am. I might catch Hollywood Squares in the morning, yawn, eat some lunch and then watch Match Game in the afternoon. If I was feeling especially spry I might throw a ball against a wall or saunter down to the pool for the afternoon.
I played baseball every summer but things really got lazy when our baseball season ended in July. I can only imagine just how truly out of shape those of us who played sports were when school began in August. Getting sick during conditioning drills in football became an annual ritual for most. Fast forward 35 years and things have changed for teenagers – for the better.
The North Texas area is one of the most fertile areas in the country for young athletes. Football, basketball, baseball, hockey, softball, volleyball …it doesn’t matter. This area is filthy with young athletes. Some parents in North Texas will also spare no expense because they’re fearful their kids will fall behind the competition. Others are simply looking to give their kid an edge and are willing to pay for it.
I know of a 10 year old golfer who not only received thrice weekly golf lessons but also regularly met with a sports psychologist. Some parents may roll their eyes at such a thought but I don’t think it’s a terrible thing. It is what it is – progress.
Crull Fitness (www.crullfitness.com) is a North Texas company that offers personalized training for young athletes aged 5-18. Al Coseglia is a co-owner of Crull Fitness and a former scholarship athlete who not only played soccer at Quinnipac University but also graduated Phi Beta Kappa.
So what should the 13 year old football player do to make sure he has a good off-season and reports to football practice in August not only shape but also stronger?
Says Cosgelia, “Strength training is appropriate for athletes aged 12 to 14. At that age, learning proper technique and strength progressions are very important. Proper training is also about working out the entire body. Summer workouts should focus on flexibility, upper and lower body strength, speed, agility, conditioning and the core.”
Some aspects of physical training are easier to improve than others. Football players are quite often told to not only get stronger but also gain 20-30 lbs. over the summer – or else. Coseglia explains, “Gaining that much weight over the summer can be done but it requires a combination of strength training, proper nutrition and proper supplementation.”
The individual skills easiest for young athletes to significantly improve upon in the summer are strength, speed, vertical jump, conditioning and core strength. A skill that embodies all of the above and helps almost all athletes improve is the ability to “explode.”
Whether it’s a defensive back, a linebacker, a point guard or a shortstop, the ability to “explode” or get from Point A to Point B in the shortest time possible is an invaluable skill that can be taught by emphasizing unilateral and bilateral exercises that make both sides of the body equal in strength.
I have many fond memories of the 1970’s but given a choice I would have much rather been a young athlete in the summer of 2010.

9 Bodacious (and Easy) Ways to Practice Self-Care

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

This article was written by Christine Kane. I get her e-newsletter every week and always enjoy her articles. In her introduction she writes that she needed this advice herself this week! How many times do you ignore your own symptoms/signs that you are worn out and need to take some time out? Her tips for self-care are so easy, why wouldn’t we do at least one if not all 9 of them?

9 Bodacious (and Easy) Ways to Practice Self-Care

Just as there was a time when “google” was not a verb, there was also a time when “bodacious” was not a word. Bodacious is a blend of “bold” and “audacious” created in British English dialect late in the nineteenth century.

I love this word! Some days we need to be bodacious! And some days, we need to remember to apply it to our own self-care.

No matter how rewarding or noble it is to be of service to others - whether you’re a coach, in retail, or taking care of an ailing parent - you cannot leave your self-care out of the picture. If you do, you’ll soon burn-out, become ill or angry, and you’ll ultimately be serving no one.

Here are 9 bodacious ways to practice self-care:

1 - Flowers!

This is so simple – and yet so powerful. Fresh flowers beautify any space. I always have an orchid on my coffee table. I see it the minute I walk in the door, and it reminds me to take a deep breath and cherish the beauty of my life. Create a Sunday ritual of getting fresh flowers to get your week off to a bodacious start!

2 - Take a nap.

Favorite thing: I climb into bed for a nap in the middle of the day. Within minutes comes the soft ploop of cat paws on the cover. I can almost hear the cat thoughts: Hmm. The human has decided to lie quietly. I’d like to take part. Then the paws walk all around me until they find the very best spot for settling.

Cats know the truth: Naps are bodacious!

3 - Pay full price.

The amount of energy we waste on trying to get “deals” is often not worth it. If you see something you love, then get it. I’m convinced that we’d all be so much happier and wealthier if we just got exactly what we loved without looking at price tags and wasting time looking for sales. (We’d probably have much less stuff too!)

4 - Trampolines and swings.

I was at a cocktail party last year. The adults were up on the deck watching the kids jump on the trampoline. At one point, all the kids ran inside. I kicked off my shoes and ran for the trampoline. Three other women joined me. We laughed and jumped for about 15 minutes. It was the most fun I’d had all week.

Swings are fun, too. And they’re easy to find! Who cares if you look or feel stupid? Being an adult doesn’t have to mean being boring!

5 - Truncate your To-Do’s.

How many items are on your to-do list today?

32?

20?

67?

A day should have no more than two or three mission-critical priorities for completion. The rest are extra credit! Give yourself the gift of completion. It is the ultimate self-care.

6 - Order out.

I love preparing meals. But some nights, it’s just necessary to let someone else do the cooking. We have a great delivery service in our town. I don’t mind the extra expense if it allows me a night of no clean up, and a little extra time to write or just be with my husband.

7 - Take a long walk with your dog.

Are you one of those people who gets home from work and marches your dog around the block with a grim look on your face? (Another to-do item checked off the list!)

Try this: Take your dog for a long happy walk. Revel in the delight and presence of your dog. It will absolutely lift your spirits.

8 - Read for fun.

Do you relish your days on the beach because it’s the only time you’ll allow yourself the joy of a trashy novel or some “light” reading?

Why not get a little bodacious and bring the beach to your work-week? Curl up at night and get lost in some fun fiction.

9 - Step AWAY from the computer. (And the phone.)

The challenge of this internet world is that we are “plugged in” 24/7. You are reachable all the time now. No one waits for “business hours” anymore. This is not healthy for your precious creative spirit, my friend.

Take regular breaks from Facebook, blogs, texts, cell phones, and email. (Yes, even this eZine!) Don’t include your computer in any of the above activities. And turn off your phone, too! I promise, your computer and phone won’t take it personally! (Neither will this e-Zine!)

Performer, songwriter, and creativity consultant Christine Kane publishes her ‘LiveCreative’ weekly ezine with more than 11,000 subscribers. If you want to be the artist of your life and create authentic and lasting success, you can sign up for a FRE*E subscription to LiveCreative at http://www.christinekane.com/.

Starting Over, Again

Monday, January 25th, 2010

I am finally back in Dallas and getting my life back on track. After a month away from home and office, I felt like everything was spinning out of control and I was lost. To give you an idea of how crazy last week was, I got this great quote from Martin Luther King in an email newsletter last Monday (on the actual MLK day) from one of my favorite sales motivation sights called “Smile & Move.” Just seeing those two words makes we want to do exactly that! They have an awesome blog: http://blog.givemore.com/ Great for when you need a quick pick me up, no matter what you are doing. I have been “meaning” to blog about it for week now. This idea of “meaning to” is symptomatic of why I need to make some lifestyle changes, from the inside out.

Last week Sam sent out some inspirational quotes from Martin Luther King and this one stopped me in my tracks:

“The major problem of life is learning how to handle the costly interruptions. The door that slams shut, the plan that got sidetracked, the marriage that failed. Or that lovely poem that didn’t get written because someone knocked on the door.”

That is how I have felt recently. That poem that didn’t get written was the one about my life, where I get to take care of me and my family and put my health first. That didn’t happen while I was away caring for an aging parent, spending 10 or more hours a day in a hospital room. There is no one to blame and I am not upset or angry about this “costly interruption” but I am concerned with how to get it all going in the right direction again. It would be so easy to just give up on the goals I have set for myself and keep living the way I have been. But if I do that, then I am giving up on myself and allowing a small interruption to become a life-changing event. Seems silly doesn’t it?

What’s wrong with that picture? I just turned 45 years old, I am 45 pounds overweight (poetic justice in those numbers) and my business has been on hold for the first several weeks of the year. If I keep doing what I am doing, I will not be alive in 20 years to play with my grandchildren, grow old with my husband and see my children’s success in their lifetime. And I really want to be here, in a way that I have not focused on before. Maybe it is that big number, 45, which suddenly looks a lot closer to 50  than it ever did before. Maybe it’s just realizing that I am cheating myself. I don’t have the energy or enthusiasm I used to have for anything.

I finally got to meet with Betty Murray last Friday after a 5-week hiatus, the nutritionist that my husband and I are working with at Living Well Dallas. Yes, after being gone for a month I did gain weight, two pounds, could have been worse. But Betty gave me some good advice, she said to celebrate the small success of just moving forward every day. Forgetting about the scale, focus on what I did right during those weeks I was away. I managed to walk 3 to 4 times a week and while I didn’t carefully pay attention to what I was eating, I by no means went insane and ate everything in sight. I would have done this in the past, when any opportunity to splurge was a valid one.

In fact, when my stepmom was diagnosed with brain cancer a couple of years ago, I did just that. In all the craziness of travel, stress, sadness (she died two months after her diagnosis) I gained about 25 pounds that I am still carrying. I stopped running and stopped taking care of myself for a while, I tried to get business going again and tried to spend some much needed time with my family.

So yes, I have experienced a short blip on my personal 2010 timeline of goals and dreams, but I am not really starting over. I am going to remember to celebrate my successes, no matter how small and to keep sight of the long term goals. Tomorrow, I get to touch base with Jenny Bair, my “inner organizer”. I can’t wait to revisit the plans we made and put them into action.

A renewed commitment to health

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

The January issue of North Texas Kids will be out soon, some of you may already have a copy or you can read it online here. I wrote an article about how my husband and I are making a renewed commitment to our health: mental, emotional and especially physical. We have embarked on a whole body makeover with the amazing founders of Living Well Dallas, Jenny Bair, the “inner organizer” and Betty Murray, CN, HHC, RYT, Certified Nutritionist & Holistic Health Counselor.

Betty and Jenny have devised an amazing approach to helping us get our lives back on track, both individually and as a couple. We started this program a couple of weeks before Christmas and after 10 days at my mother’s house, I am not sure we are still on track, but we are thinking about it, talking about it and ready to go home and start fresh. Over the next couple of months, I will blog weekly about our progress and what we are learning about ourselves. I have already learned so much from Jenny and Betty about what my challenges are and where I need to do the emotional work to reorganize my life from the inside out and what eating/exercise changes I need to make. I lost 4 pounds in the first two weeks and was not elated, shouldn’t it have been more dramatic with all of the changes I made? Part of the emotional work is not beating myself up when I get off track and not having unrealistic expectations about what is possible. The program that Jenny and Betty have created is life-altering, not a quick fix. I know that is what I need right now, to make a renewed commitment to long term change.

Check out this great article from one of my favorite sales gurus, Jeffrey Gitomer on Commitment. This was not where I expected to find inspiration, but I found his 12.5 tips to be an excellent reminder on how to look at and embrace change.

What does it take to make a commitment, and then follow through with actions that allow the goal to be achieved?Well, I don’t know that there is an actual formula, but let me share with you what has worked for me. Making the commitment is part one. Living up to it is part two through twelve point five.

Here are the 12.5 steps to getting past commitment to achievement:

1. Today, not tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes, especially where change or breaking a habit is concerned.
2. Develop a passion or an anger about your present situation. The only way to make the goal a reality is to get determined and create the inner energy.
3. Do it for the most important person in the world…YOU! Don’t do this for or against anyone but yourself.
4. Write down your exact plan. Detail both the actions you must take, and the rewards for achievement.
5. Set a time frame. The end is as important as the beginning.
6. Determine the daily dose. Just figure out what you need to achieve each day, and do that.
7. Look for substitutes (placebos or pacifiers). If you have to quit something, get a diversion to take your mind off of temptation.
8. Don’t quit just because you slip. If you fall off the (achievement) wagon, get back on.
9. Post your goals and achievements. Post-it note your goals on your bathroom mirror. After you achieve them, take them down and post them on your bedroom mirror. Look at your success every day.
10. It’s a day-by-day process. And if you do your daily bit-of-achievement, the passing weeks will bring you the prize.
11. Change other habits, so that one is not overpowering the other. Goals require change. Take the opportunity to make a few more.
12. Celebrate your victory. Ring bells, drink champagne from the winners cup, PARTY!
12.5 Grim reality is having a crisis occur that forces the commitment to be made. This can be anywhere from bombing the World Trade Center, to having a massive heart attack. Where crisis is not the best place to have commitment occur, it is certainly the best place to show how to take immediate action.

Read the complete article about Mr. Gitomer’s insipriaton to make a change here.

One of the most important lessons I learned in 2009, is that I cannot make progress alone. I have always been the “I can do it myself!” kind of person, never wanting to ask for help, always making excuses that I was too busy to worry about myself, etcetera… Being a business owner has taught me many life lessons about learning how to ask for help! I am so grateful that I found Jenny and Betty and Living Well Dallas and that I don’t have to undertake this journey alone.

I would love to hear from you how you are making a renewed commitment to yourself this year!